Before your wedding day, take note of these 10 common photography regrets couples often have—plus practical ways to avoid them and love your photos for life.
After the wedding, the photos are what remain.
They’re not just pretty pictures. They’re your memories—your story, frozen in time. But too often, couples look back and wish they’d done things differently. As a wedding photographer, I’ve seen the patterns. And I’ve heard the “I wish we had…” moments more times than I can count.
Here’s what you don’t want to regret—and how to get the photos you’ll truly love.
Not hiring a professional photographer
A friend with a nice camera isn’t the same as someone with experience. A pro knows how to work under pressure, read the light, and tell a story through images. This isn’t the place to cut corners—your photos are what you’ll keep forever.
Skipping a first look
You might want to save the big reveal for the aisle. But many couples later say they missed the chance to connect privately before the ceremony. A first look gives you calm, clarity, and some of the most intimate images of the day.
No plan for family portraits
Without a list, formal photos can get disorganized—fast. A simple set of groupings keeps everything smooth, quick, and stress-free. Your cocktail hour will thank you.
Not communicating your style
Love editorial portraits? Obsessed with candid, documentary-style moments? Tell your photographer. We bring the vision to life, but it starts with your direction.
Skipping getting-ready photos
These moments—your best friend zipping up your dress, your dad straightening his tie—often end up being some of the most emotional images. Don’t overlook them.
Not scheduling golden hour portraits
The hour before sunset is pure magic. Build in a 15-minute window around that time, and let yourself step away for a few photos that feel warm, soft, and timeless.
Not trusting your photographer
Some directions might feel awkward in the moment, but we see the shot before we take it. Trust the process—it’s how great photos happen.
Ignoring the background
A cluttered prep room or busy background can take away from an otherwise beautiful image. Keep spaces tidy, and plan for clean, natural backdrops when possible.
Forgetting to make space for candids
Some of the best photos happen when no one’s looking. Let your day unfold naturally, and trust your photographer to capture the real, in-between moments.
Not printing your photos
Don’t let your wedding gallery sit on a hard drive. Print your photos. Frame them. Create an album. These aren’t just files—they’re part of your family’s story.
Not everything will go perfectly on your wedding day—and that’s okay. But when it comes to your photos, a bit of planning and communication can make all the difference. Be intentional. Trust your photographer. And make space for the real moments—the ones you’ll treasure forever.